ABOUT ME

"My name is Tiffany Rossdale and I'm your Tokyo based lifestyle coach."

Let me share briefly about the story of my own personal transformation. I did not always share openly about this fact, but I am transgender. I began my career in Japan working for a small electronics factory which I didn’t like doing. I have always loved to dance eversince I was a kid and when I realised that my real passion, I pivoted to working in a transgender cabaret and my sex/gender reassignment surgery followed. It was a very scary transformation to go through, but I was taught that was the only way I could live to fulfill my dreams. After completing my surgery, the opportunities to build a different selfhood and image unfolded. I love expressing myself in front of the camera and I love being the center of attention so I pursued a variety of modeling jobs. I thought I was free to live completely as a woman and I actually started to forget my past.

One day, I found a man who I felt was a perfect fit for me. He was kind, gentle, successful and loving. We were madly in-love but I never really told him about the previous “real” me. After I told him everything about my past, everything started to change! Finally, he left without an explanation and disappeared from my life. I was devastated and shattered. I became addicted to working, started experimenting with drugs and was close to being an alcoholic. Numbing myself from the heartache, I  finally faced the consequences of risking my life with my risky choices. I had many frightening incidents and then finally awoke to recognize the damage I was doing to myself.  I decided to completely turn my life around, and I abandoned the nightlife personality. I went sober, woke up early to catch the sunrise, took life coaching from influential speakers, reading inspirational books, did extreme workouts and got in touch with my spiritual self. 

I spent a month in Bali to experience a silence retreat. I started to learn more about life.

I found myself again. I found forgiveness, and I realised I never truly loved myself. I needed to heal my inner child and find peace of mind through consistent meditation. 

Through these steps, I started to love myself again and I wished to find a way to share that love and acceptance with others. 

I now use all of my struggles, past life experiences, and professional expertise to help others so they may avoid the damaging experiences I went through. I want to support others in discovering their best version of themselves, and find their own unique way to live a life of daily gratitude and deep acceptance of themselves that allows them to share and resonate their gifts from the heart.